Wardrobe In Review

 
 
Updated post here.

Because I shop secondhand, I don't do wardrobe planning in the traditional sense. I don't pin outfit ideas, watch fashion shows, or read trend reports to get a jump on the upcoming season. If you do, and it inspires you and makes you happy, that's great! Me, it just made me feel anxious, like nothing I already had was good enough, like I needed more- when, in reality, I didn't need anything new at all. For me, love at first sight is usually more successful than a cold, analytical approach. Sensible purchases, made to fill some assessed wardrobe hole, rarely ever last more than a season. Periodically, I take only a few minutes to review the condition of my items, determine what needs to be removed, replaced, or repaired, then glance at the inventory of a few favorite secondhand stores, in case something catches my eye. A minimal wardrobe shouldn't mean Spartan self-denial.

Looking over the in-and-out-flow of my closet helps me re-examine shopping habits and avoid future purchasing mistakes. I gave away / sold 18 articles of clothing before moving here, leaving me with literally 15 items (plus nine pairs of shoes, and one bag). My old, hand-me-down boots and sandals gave out almost instantly. Uncomfortable shoes went to Vestiaire Collective tout de suite. I purchased and grew tired of three dresses and four sweaters- a lot of turnover for three years. Evaluating the purchase date, number of times worn, and reasons I like / dislike a particular garment not only determines the true cost of each item, it reveals my personal style. To stay in my closet, clothes should make me happy, boost my self-confidence, and fit the way I want to dress right now, not the way I might want to look in the future. Paris closets don't have room for imaginary, what-if scenarios.


ItemPurchase dateCompositionReason purchasedTimes wornThoughts
Mackintosh coatMay 2013 (c. 2011)Waxed cottonIt started pouring outside, so I ducked into a vintage shop for shelter and fell in love500+I love that it's made of proper, heavy waterproof fabric, but has a guilty-pleasure monogram lining. Trying it on, I felt Parisian for the very first time.
Winter coatDec 2014 (c. 2008)Cashgora, virgin woolI immediately had visions of myself wearing this in a Tolstoy novel120 already- it was a long winterNormally, logic would prevent me from buying a snowy-white princess coat for slushy Paris. A lifesaver during the Arctic cold snap- the coat I always dreamed of as a little girl.
Navy dressNov 2012 (c. 2008)Wool, silkI hoped this would make me look like Carla Bruni-SarkozyEvery weekI can't explain it, but I feel powerful in this dress, as if the bodice was a conquistador's breastplate. I never get tired of the style, and it fits no matter how my body changes, à la Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants.
Pink dressNov 2013Polyester, viscose, elastaneMy husband bought this because it looked the same as my navy dressEvery weekMy go-to when I want to look polished. Doesn't wear as well as wool, but the color adds a subtle glow and matches everything. People ask if this dress is new even after seeing it 100 times.
Paul and Joe dressNov 2011Wool, silkThe kimono-style sleeves reminded me of my family500+, maybe moreI love the smoothness of the wool and how comfortable this is on hot summer days.
Bow-front shirtdressAug 2014 (c. 2002- est)CottonWhen I imagined Paris, I always thought women wore full-skirted shirtdresses like this. Couldn't be more wrongOver 300 (now I'm just making up numbers)The swishiness of the skirt is highly gratifying. As with all of the above purchases, it fit like a glove without initial tailoring, and is machine washable.
Red dressMar 2015Crepe, silkIt's red and Dior
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I'm never satisfied with my wardrobe unless there's something red in it.
Petit Bateau linen t-shirtsAug / Dec 2014LinenThey looked so light, carefree and Jane Birkin-y on the hangerAlmost everydayMy body changed and now these hang like maternity tops. Men give up seats on the Métro because they think I'm enceinte. They're so pretty and soft though, perfect tucked into a skirt. 
J Brand jeansSometime in 2011Cotton, elastaneI thought these were the same as Emmanuelle Alt's jeansAt least 3x a weekThese fit no matter what weight I am and still look new.
SkirtSept 2011Virgin wool, silkI always wanted a mermaid skirt, and sneaking one into a corporate setting thrilled me2-3 a weekIndispensable- matched every top I've purchased in four years. In perfect condition. I love the heft and sheen of the wool, and the LV logo pull appeals to my vanity
SneakersMay 2013Leather, undisclosed syntheticsMy husband bought this because he didn't want me to have foot problemsEvery weekDespite Nike's severe ethical and environmental failures, these are like protective turtle shells.
HeelsAugust 2011Patent leatherI fell for the Richard Prince monogramHundreds of timesComfortable if I walk less than 10 km in them, these get more compliments and start more conversations than any other shoe.
SandalsFeb 2011, c. 2010?Suede, juteI thought bright green was a neutral and the color would convey that I was a sustainability majorHundreds, only special occasions nowThe kind of shoe that matches nothing, yet goes with everything, so bright and out there I can wear it with all my clothes. The kind of shoe wardrobe analyses might preclude me from buying.
Bow pumpsOct 2014Patent leatherAt heart I'm actually a 70 year old womanAlmost daily, my cobbler wants to kill meThese didn't need a cobbler until last week- they look new. Best shoe ever. Perfect for lots of walking, cute with jeans or skirts.
BootsDec 2014Leather, rubberMy 15 year old boots finally wore out, and these were warm and kind of cuteEveryday until MayPracticality told me to get Ugg boots. These are shapelier and give a little lift but are comfortable, waterproof, and easy to clean.

I kept pieces I could tell a story about, things that made my heart flutter or embodied some cherished memory. Based on this, I learned 1) I like below-the-knee hemlines 2) Layers don't work for me 3) I should stick to body-skimming silhouettes instead of flowy ones 4) I have a princess complex 5) I gravitate towards statement-making shoes that don't match anything, yet go with everything, bringing variety to my wardrobe. I have trouble selecting sweaters and cardigans- I left the Uniqlo cardigan off the chart because I have nothing to say about it. It's scratchy and I merely tolerate it. This year, I'm determined not to repeat my mistakes. I always buy boring, practical sweaters that don't bring any enjoyment, so a pretty tailored jacket or hand-knit might be the answer.

The chart also shows I'm still seduced by designer labels. Minimalism need not be about prestige- in middle school I bought a Forever 21 camisole for $2 at a thrift store and wore it until I left for Paris. I once bought a Dior shirt from the same place that was a piece of garbage. The idea that a designer label is required for quality is largely unfounded, and most people here wear chain store clothing, though they may invest more in accessories. Still, I don't like Uniqlo, Forever 21 et al. (and a lot of expensive designers, for that matter) because of their practices. While I'm not opposed to buying these brands in a thrift store, they don't work for me. They fit funny, or the fabric is weird. One exception: Secondhand H&M gloves. The leather stretched more than I expected and they look mannish now, but they're still perfectly warm, in good condition.

At any rate, I don't believe fast fashion is ever all anybody can afford, because I couldn't afford H&M or Forever 21 until recently. Going to the mall was a cruel exercise, since I barely had the cash to cough up $59.99 for jeans. My clothing budget is now $50 a month, which I rarely spend. Everything on this chart cost less than mall clothes. While not everyone will find luxury items in thrift stores, I hope this illustrates the fact that there are alternatives to fast fashion. Since there were no thrift stores in my town, before I could drive, I made skirts out of scrap upholstery fabric and wore them with my dad's old shirts, which I refashioned.

Another thing I've learned from my wardrobe evaluation- I like to wear my "nice" clothes everyday, which is something I think Europeans do more than Americans. I don't see the point of letting good stuff take up valuable real estate, only to remain unworn.

Paris to Go

39 comments:

  1. Love the love you have for your clothing. For me this is THE essential factor to. I also like how you work with budgets, as it is what works best for me to. I have a budget for a year (if i work with months, I only end up cheating myself ), instead of numbers and this helps me grately in identifying my needs, and questioning my love for the clothing. It has to really mean something to me, because one new clothing friend in means another one needs to go.

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    1. Hi Emma! A yearly budget is a good idea. I love the way you speak of them as clothing friends. That kind of attitude helps people take care of their clothes better, I think!

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  2. Bonjour !
    Je suis cordonnière et j'ai l'habitude de conseiller pour le bien de nos chaussures, qu'il ne faut jamais les porter deux jours de suite (je pense aux pauvres Ferragamo). Le mieux serait d'avoir une ou deux paires supplémentaires du même modèle à porter en alternance. Et puis surtout, faire poser des semelles de protection quand elles sont encore neuves !
    Voilà, à part ça cette robe rouge est magnifique, bonne journée !

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    1. Bonjour Daphné! Vouz avez raison! Merci pour les bons conseils. Je dois les laisser reposer. Je peux porter mes autres chaussures mais, j'adore les pauvres Ferragamo :) Bonne journée!

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    2. Merci pour ce conseil

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  3. Dear Ariana, again such a beautiful blog post about your wardrobe and how carefully you decide which pieces remain. It must be a nice feeling to wear a favorite piece every day. You inspire me to go on my way, because I've also started to sell or give away many items that I don't love. First I felt wasteful to give away so much clothing - but the waste has already taken place. Now I am very critical when it comes to buying things that have always been missing, but I have never bought, because it was an investment (instead I used to to fill the "gaps" with many cheap substitutes). Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us! Even my husband is inspired to participate, so we are on a journey together, with fewer clothes, furniture and other things (just sold our car)... it's so relieving and comforting not to have to worry and car about so much.
    PS: If you want to visit Hamburg, we would be delighted if you stayed with us, guide you around and show you our assembly hall :)
    Bisous, Carolin

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    1. Oh I forgot to say, that I totally get you and your 70 year old inner woman :) I'm secretly a granny too when it comes to shoes. Haha. I adore these low pumps - they seem to perfectly comfortable but not too low, so that the shoe will be scratched instantly from cobblestones. Is the patent leather very prone to scratches?

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    2. Hi dear Carolin! I would love to visit Hamburg, thank you!!! I'm in the US for awhile for convention and a few weddings but it would be wonderful to see you and see the brothers and sisters there. We have convention this weekend here in Paris. How wonderful that you and your husband sold your car. You are simplifying to do more in Jehovah's service, that is such a good example! I did the same thing with wardrobe gaps and it was a waste. A couple that came from the Kingdom Evangelizer's school said they had a course on this sort of thing. They told them it was Jehovah's money and that helped put in perspective that they may need to wait and buy better.

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    3. And I also forgot to say about the pumps- no, it doesn't scratch! I recently got a scratch because someone backed into me with stiletto heels. But before that, nothing, and it got caught in cobblestones a few time. Very durable and easy to maintain.

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  4. Love it! You have gorgeous clothes.

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  5. Ariana, I found your blog a week ago and I'm hooked! I read almost all your posts. I have so many questions...😊 but for now, I was wondering what thrift store you know on Facebook... You mentioned it in this post, and I am curious since I know only of Twice and ebay😀. Thanks a lot!

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    1. Hi Nami! Thank you so much :) I hope to answer your questions! The thrift stores I look at on Facebook are local shops like Violette et Leonie, or Second Chance Grandview and Cleveland Consignment Shoppe near my childhood home- when I visit home, I like to see if there's something I want, so looking at the new inventory they post helps a lot.

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  6. I recently started reading your blog, and I'm really enjoying it so far.

    You made interesting and good points about minimalism (and clothing quality) not requiring prestige labels and also about there always being alternatives to fast fashion. Those are ideas I've been working through myself, though I only started being more careful about my wardrobe and shopping in the last few months and my thoughts on those things are not as developed. I think I sometimes let laziness or other priorities get in the way of my desire to avoid buying fast fashion directly from the stores, which isn't too great of me.

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    1. Hi Xin, thank you for reading! I have the same issues I think. It's easier in the short term to just go to Uniqlo than comb through thrift stores. Fortunately, I hate shopping so much, now I try to think about how I'll just have to start all over again with the hunt for a particular piece because the clothing may not last or doesn't fit with my values.

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  7. Enjoyed reading all the stories behind the items. You make it sound possible in finding this great quality items at second hand shops. All I have seen so far are piles of fast fashion discarded probably after 3X use. Maybe I should go explore more ? The downside of that is time. Would I be grazing for hours in piles of clothing and not find a summer dress ? Those sort of questions hold me back. I can find stuff online and that is my prefered route of acquiring clothing.

    I would love to hear more about your actuall in-store experiences. You favourite second hand shops ( offline and online). A future post maybe ?

    I apologize for 'asking' for blog posts. I know its not your job per say. But you are a good teacher with your own style of information delivery ( lots of sarcasm from what I see ).

    - Archana.

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    1. Hi Archana! Don't apologize, I love the ideas! It's really helpful. I like finding stuff online for specific items, butI've actually only purchased from The Real Real or eBay online, and only a few items. Do you have any recommendations for secondhand sources? I actually didn't spend much time thrifting- I'd go on my lunch break which, at the time, was half an hour long or less. I've touched on this a little bit in previous posts, but I only check the colors that I like and feel the fabrics less than looking for it... when I spot something intriguing, I take it off the rack and decide if I try it on or not. I also don't like to go to really packed thrift stores. I like shops with edited merchandise, which saves a lot of time and skims out a lot of the fast fashion.

      Here are my favorite shops, offline and online:

      http://www.paris-to-go.com/2015/01/paris-best-vintage-stores.html

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    2. My fav so far has been Ebay. I put in some brands like APC, Yohji , DVF, Equipment, etc in my 'interests' and browse the feed when I need something to see what is available.

      I know of shop-hers, tradesy. But they have huuuge inventories and I don't have that sort of patience.

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    3. I never heard of Shop-Hers before! The Real Real is getting to be like that- huge inventory. I was a little overwhelmed by ebay before but your strategy sounds really efficient and manageable.

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  8. Hi Ariana. A little note to tell you what an inspiration you've been. For far too long I've fallen into the trap that many women my age do. I bought a lot of cheap clothes and ended up with a walk in closet full of unsatisfactory clothing I never wore. All those mall brands? Instead of buying a few nice designer, "prestige" items, I had a bunch of crap from Macy's and Kohl's. I traveled to Paris and wondered why I looked so different from women who wore many of the same items I did, like denim skirts and cardigans.

    Finding your blog and realizing that someone so young could live in such a radical way and still be successful was an eye opener. It's become addictive reading for me. Every post is more enjoyable than the next, and I love your little cats. You truly have maturity beyond your years. I gave away three garbage bags full of clothing and had a garage sale. Slowly but surely I'm removing unnecessary clutter from my life. Now my wardrobe is just my cherished pieces. A cashmere cardigan from my husband, nearly lost under a pile of synthetics. Pearls handed down from my grandmother, which I never wore until I read they needed to keep their luster here. I dream of Louis Vuitton and Cartier now after reading these posts, perhaps another wedding anniversary (19 years and counting). I don't usually read blogs but this is one I check back to every week. I'm always excited to read a new post. Please keep inspiring.

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    1. Thank you so much Kim! Aw no, I don't mean to make you dream of designers :) But I'm glad your wardrobe is full of pieces you love. Especially the pearls, I'm happy you're wearing them!

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  9. Ariana,
    Love your blog! Such a beautiful and simple approach to fashion. One question, I am in the U.S. (San Francisco) and can never find beautiful high end items like the ones in your list at our local Goodwill/Salvation Army/thrift shops. These items are usually sorted and sold at higher price at auctions. Consignments that carry luxury are much more expensive than mall stores. Do you have any tips for second hand shopping for high end items in the US?

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    1. Hi, thank you very much, what a sweet comment! Well, I'm afraid I have no advice for this because my experience thrifting is mostly limited to Cleveland. As one commenter pointed out, stock is less picked over there. You can find luxury items for less than Sandro and Maje here in Paris, and I did go thrifting in Chicago once and got Chanel, Valentino, Sonia Rykiel items for $30-100, but I'm guessing this is a Midwestern thing and would never happen in a coastal city like NYC, SF, etc. (although, I once bought an Alaia dress for $12 in NYC!)

      TheRealReal, while not a thrift shop, has luxury items for less than what you might pay at J Crew. This shop:

      https://www.facebook.com/pages/Jane-Consignment/252260043752?ref=ts

      Seems to have some luxury items, and their prices look good. From reviews, it looks like the prices are reasonable here too:

      https://www.facebook.com/GoodbyesSF

      I didn't typically shop for designer items, I shopped for specific colors and bought plenty of non-luxury items too, but I kept the higher end items when I moved here and got rid of the rest, so the list is definitely a skewed representation of my normal finds!

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  10. I see that you're stateside. If you're ever in the Nashville area, let me know!

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    1. Hi Darcy! You're so sweet! At the moment I'm not yet stateside... just planning a trip soon!

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  11. THANK YOU! This post perfectly blends all the capsule / minimalist / je ne sais quoi wardrobe ideas I've been toying with over the past few years. And... I'm totally nerding out over your chart. :)

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    1. Ah, that's wonderful! Thank you for this comment, it's comments like these that make me so happy!

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  12. What a great post and your wardrobe, even it's far from mine " full time working at 4 °C, mom of two 's one "
    Loved when you mentionned your " princess complex".
    When i declutterd my wardrobe, i discovered that almost all my favorite tops had strips ! My sister found in a book that it means that i wanted to be seen ! Interesting !

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    1. Adeline, that is so interesting! I would like to read that book. I never associated that with stripes before! It would be interesting to see, psychologically, what my color or pattern choices mean.

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    2. Auschwitz survivors never wanted to wear stripes again, apparently. It reminded them of their uniform in the camp.

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  13. I love this breakdown of your wardrobe! My wardrobe has seen more turnover than I care to admit, and there were a number of items purchased simply because "it was on clearance". I've been trying to make an effort to stop buying things simply because they're heavily on sale. I'm kind of embarrassed that I did it in the first place. You're thoughts column is pure gold.

    I'll be doing an inventory of my clothing soon so I can compare it to the same time last year. I don't know that I recall the exact reasoning why I bought certain items (some of them are quite old), but I'll definitely be taking some of your learnings into consideration. I also have a hard time finding sweaters, so maybe it's time to stop forcing the issue and try something else.

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    1. Thank you Cassie! I did the same thing. When I saw a bargain, I felt like I had to get it or I'd be missing out. Why are sweaters so hard to buy? They either get ratty or area cut badly and I don't like the material for most knit sweaters anymore. If you find something else that works please share it with me :)

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  14. Dear Ariana, I stumbled upon your blog yesterday and I must say that I'm quite fascinated by your approach. You inspired me very much and helped me take the plunge and declutter my wardrobe even more radical (though still not as "straigt forward" as you - this is a compliment, by the way!).
    Still, I would like to ask you some questions because I'm struggling with some sections of my wardrobe. Somewhere you are writing that you own two bras + seven pairs of underwear or 1 pair of tights, right? Elsewhere you write that you are doing laundry every two weeks or so. Are you washing underwear and socks/tights in the sink after wearing so that you have it clean the next day? I want to reduce my underwear and tights, too but got the feeling that I need a lot, even more so as I am too wearing mostly dresses. How do you get by with so little clothes and so little laundry? :)
    Another area I'm struggling with is clothes for specific occasions where I normally wouldn't wear my regular clothes. You are writing that (you see that I read almost all of your posts :) ) Paris girls taught you that there is almost nothing that you can't do in a dress and I whole-heartedly agree. Still, there might be occasions where you wouldn't wanna risk ruining your favourite dresses, e. g. going hiking or to a climbing crag. Do you just not go to such locations or do you keep extra clothes?
    By the way, my favourite uniform is dress + cardigan, too. :) Is this a distinct dress code in your company or is it just your personal interpretation of business style?
    I would love to hear your answers, you are such an inspiration! :)

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    1. Hi Melanie, you are so, so sweet! You are absolutely right- I only wash clothes every two weeks, but all other laundry once a week. That includes towels, sheets, undies, etc.

      I read that you are supposed to wash your tights and bras every time you wear them to extend their lifespan. Mine dry overnight, and I let my bras rest between wears, but still, I don't wash them every single time. Twice a week at the very most!

      In the winter I like to wear long socks with my boots, or leggings instead of tights. I only need to wear tights on the occasions when it's too cold for bare legs and I must wear heels, so it's easy to get by on just one pair. Not owning a lot of clothing means less laundry, so even though I'm still running the washer weekly, it's fewer and smaller loads.

      I hike a lot, and I play soccer, but I wear a t-shirt and jeans or often, my red or linen dress :) I think on my Instagram I have pictures of me at the top of volcanoes and mountains and I'm just wearing jeans, because I fall sometimes and I like denim to protect my legs! The last time I played soccer, I was barefoot and in a dress against real athletes, and I still scored more goals than anyone else, and managed to somehow kick my husband and one of his friends so hard in the shins they had to sit out for a minute. It was an accident!

      Dress and cardigan is not the required dress code, separates are allowed too and even dress pants or pantsuits, but most women wear skirts anyway. I prefer dresses for their ease. I just feel more comfortable in them.

      Thank you so much for reaching out! I hope I answered these ok?

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    2. Thank you so much for the quick and comprehensive response! It's always useful to learn precisely how others put minimalism into practice. Thanks a lot and I will keep on reading. :)

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  15. Wonderful blog! I've pared down much of my wardrobe this year and kept things I love. Same goes for my chidlren's toys, books, clothes they've outgrown. I remember the days of Asian Leprechaun and Gryphon. It's beautiful to see your posts again.

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    1. That's awesome that you've pared down and are setting a great example for your kids. And thank you so much! It's crazy that you remember that, thanks for reading :)

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  16. Hi i love your blog and I have been trying to live a more sustainable life. The idea of thrift shopping has always been appealing to me, but the one thing that keeps me away is the dangers of disease transmission. Is it safe to buy used clothing and how do you clean/disinfect yours?

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    1. Hi! A lot of my friends worry about the same thing. Actually new store bought clothes are covered in chemicals and lots of junk from being tried on and transported so they are equally gross :) I've had no issues with shoes or even secondhand swimwear. I just clean with a capful of vinegar and disinfect in the sun. I've actually tested bacteria levels on new vs used clothes in school and found no evidence to support secondhand clothes were dirtier :)

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